Our minds possess the power to heal pain and stress, and to blossom into peace and joy, by loosening the clinging attitudes that Buddhists call "grasping at self." If we apply the mind's healing power, we can heal not only our mental and emotional afflictions, but physical problems also... Yet for healing, we don't have to be believers in any particular faith. We can heal body and mind simply by being what we truly are, and by allowing our own natural healing qualities to manifest:
Saturday, July 12, 2025
book: The Healing Power of Mind
Our minds possess the power to heal pain and stress, and to blossom into peace and joy, by loosening the clinging attitudes that Buddhists call "grasping at self." If we apply the mind's healing power, we can heal not only our mental and emotional afflictions, but physical problems also... Yet for healing, we don't have to be believers in any particular faith. We can heal body and mind simply by being what we truly are, and by allowing our own natural healing qualities to manifest:
Sunday, July 6, 2025
Saturday, July 5, 2025
Self-Reliance by Ralph Waldo Emerson
- Trust thyself. Every heart vibrates to that iron string. Your intuition is wiser than you think.
- Imitation is suicide. Don’t live someone else’s life. Your genius lies in being fully, originally you.
- Speak your truth boldly. What you believe deeply today may evolve—but don’t hold back for fear of judgment.
- Great people live from the inside out. They ignore applause or criticism—and follow what feels divinely true.
- Your consistency is courage. Be who you are—even when it’s hard. Especially when it’s hard.
Saturday, June 28, 2025
book: Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink
video summary
PNTV: Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin (#297) - YouTube
Brian Johnson
- own everything you do
- 100% rsponsibility
- 0% blame
- no bad teams
- only bad leaders
- true believers
- hope inspires
- believe in better future
- prioritize, the execute
- no spinning
- what is #1 thing to do now
- 3 alarms
- to wake up on time
- first test of the day
- discipline = freedom
Extreme Ownership Animated Summary - YouTube
full review
Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin Book Summary |… | Heroic
Saturday, June 21, 2025
book: How to Think Like Leonardo da Vinci
• creative thinking
• self-expression
• enjoying the world around you
• goal setting and life balance
PNTV: How to Think Like Leonardo da Vinci by Michael Gelb (#24) - YouTube by Brian Johnson
How to Think Like Leonardo da Vinci by Michael Gelb Book Summary |… | Heroic
1. “Curiosità—An insatiably curious approach to life and an unrelenting quest for continuous learning.2. Dimonstratzione—A commitment to test knowledge through experience, persistence, and a willingness to learn from mistakes.
3. Sensazione—The continual refinement of the senses, especially sight, as the means to clarify experience.
4. Sfumato (literally ‘Going up in Smoke’)—A willingness to embrace ambiguity, paradox, and uncertainty.
5. Arte/Scienza—The development of the balance between science and art, logic and imagination. ‘Whole-brain thinking.’
6. Corporalita—The cultivation of grace, ambidexterity, fitness, and poise.
7. Connessione—A recognition and appreciation for the connectedness of all things and phenomena. Systems thinking.”
Saturday, June 14, 2025
book: 10-Minute Toughness
Dr. Jason Selk
Jason Selk - Speakers' Spotlight Showcase 2016 - YouTube
PNTV: 10-Minute Toughness by Jason Selk (#173) - YouTube
- breath 6+2+7
- thought replacement (good instead of bad)
- focus on solutions
- start with one step to solution
- ready, fire, aim, don't wait
10-Minute Toughness by Jason Selk—a practical, performance-boosting guide that shows how to build mental toughness, confidence, and focus in just 10 minutes a day.
- Mental training is physical training for your mind.
Just like the gym builds your body, daily reps build resilience. - Confidence is earned through preparation.
Self-trust grows when you rehearse success—not just hope for it. - The “mental workout” works. Jason Selk’s 5-part routine
(centering breath, identity statement, goal setting, visualization, and self-talk) delivers results. - Control what you can. Focus on effort, attitude, and preparation—
let go of what you can’t influence. - Mental toughness is a habit.
Build it proactively—not just when things get tough.
Get confident: 10-MINUTE MENTAL TOUGHNESS by Dr. Jason Selk - YouTube
10-Minute Toughness by Jason Selk - Animated Book Summary | Self Investing Ideas - YouTube
10 MINUTE TOUGHNESS (by Jason Selk) Top 7 Lessons | Book Summary - YouTube
Saturday, June 7, 2025
book: Self-theories by Carol Dweck
- Your self-theory is your identity story.
What you believe about your abilities shapes how you respond to challenge. - Fixed mindset = fragile confidence.
If you think traits are unchangeable, failure feels like identity collapse. - Growth mindset = resilience.
Believing you can improve through effort leads to perseverance and better outcomes. - Praise wisely. Applaud effort, strategy, and persistence—not intelligence or talent.
- You can change your self-theory. Awareness is the first step.
Practice reframing setbacks as growth signals.
Saturday, May 31, 2025
books: Foundation by Isaac Asimov
The Foundation series is a science fiction novel series
written by American author Isaac Asimov.
Foundation Trilogy:
Saturday, May 24, 2025
book: The Enchiridion by Epictetus
"original" (free)
The Enchiridion by Epictetus | Project Gutenberg
Books by Epictetus (sorted by popularity) - Project Gutenberg
The Project Gutenberg eBook of The Enchiridion, by Epictetus
The Internet Classics Archive | The Enchiridion by Epictetus @MIT
summary/review
PNTV: The Enchiridion by Epictetus (#71) - YouTube
+1: The Enchiridion by Epictetus (#2165) | Heroic
- Focus only on what you control.
Thoughts, actions, and choices—these are yours. Everything else? Let it go. - Events don’t disturb you—your judgments do.
Reframe your perception, and you change your experience. - Accept fate.
Don’t just endure what happens—embrace it as part of your training. - Desire nothing external.
True freedom comes when you stop needing things outside your control to go your way. - Live with virtue.
Wisdom, courage, justice, and self-control are the only true goods—build your life on them.
The Enchiridion by Epictetus Book Summary | Philosopher's Notes | Heroic
Saturday, May 17, 2025
book: How to Train Your Mind:
Chris Bailey (author) - Wikipedia
Saturday, May 10, 2025
book: The Art of Impossible by Steven Kotler
The Art of Impossible: A Peak Performance Primer: Kotler, Steven: 9780062977519: Amazon.com: Books
Steven Kotler is known for his work on human performance, flow states, and exponential technologies.
Here are some of his most notable and highly-regarded books:
- "The Art of Impossible" (2021) - A practical guide to achieving peak performance through accessing flow states and achieving what seems impossible.
- "Stealing Fire" (2017) - Co-authored with Jamie Wheal, this book explores how elite performers are using altered states to dramatically accelerate performance.
- "The Rise of Superman" (2014) - Focuses on how extreme athletes use flow states to accomplish extraordinary feats.
- "Abundance" (2012) - Co-authored with Peter Diamandis, this optimistic book looks at how technology can solve humanity's biggest challenges.
- "Bold" (2015) - Also co-authored with Peter Diamandis, this book serves as a guide for entrepreneurs looking to capitalize on exponential technologies.
- "Tomorrowland" (2015) - An exploration of emerging technologies and their potential to reshape our future.
- "The Future Is Faster Than You Think" (2020) - Co-authored with Peter Diamandis, examining how converging technologies are transforming business, industries, and our lives.
Saturday, May 3, 2025
movie: Finding Joe (Joseph Campbell)
A Joseph Campbell Companion by Joseph Campbell Book Summary |… | Heroic
PNTV: A Joseph Campbell Companion by Joseph Campbell (#69) - YouTube
PNTV: The Power of Myth by Joseph Campbell (#16) - YouTube
PNTV: Pathways to Bliss by Joseph Campbell (#50) - YouTube
The goal of the hero trip
down to the jewel point
is to find those levels in the psyche
that open, open, open,
and finally open to the mystery
of your Self
being Buddha consciousness
or the Christ."
Saturday, April 26, 2025
music: The Four Seasons (Vivaldi)
The Four Seasons (Vivaldi) - Wikipedia
The Four Seasons (Italian: Le quattro stagioni) is a group of four violin concerti by Italian composer Antonio Vivaldi, each of which gives musical expression to a season of the year.
Vivaldi Four Seasons: Winter (L'Inverno), original version. Freivogel & Voices of Music RV 297 4K - YouTubeVivaldi Four Seasons: complete, original version. Voices of Music, Freivogel, Moore, Youssefian. 4K - YouTube (spring, summer, autumn, winter)
@suno.ai
AI harp winterSunday, April 20, 2025
music: Andreas Vollenweider
is a Swiss harpist. He is generally categorised as a new-age musician
and uses a modified electroacoustic harp of his own design
Caverna Magica (...Under The Tree - In The Cave...) - YouTube
Caverna Magica - Wikipedia
The songs in "Caverna Magica" by Andreas Vollenweider don't use lyrics in a conventional language. This 1983 album features Vollenweider's distinctive harp playing accompanied by a made-up, invented language that he created specifically for this album.
The vocal parts are performed in this fictional language, which consists of syllables and sounds that resemble speech but don't translate to any known human language. This invented vocal style contributes to the album's mystical, otherworldly atmosphere that complements its concept of a journey through a magical cave.
This approach of using invented languages or vocalizations is not uncommon in new age and ambient music, where the human voice is often treated as another instrument rather than a vehicle for literal meaning through lyrics.
Saturday, April 19, 2025
book: Genius Foods
Saturday, April 12, 2025
Saturday, April 5, 2025
The Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale
The Strangest Secret - Kindle edition by Nightingale, Earl. Self-Help Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.
During 1956, he produced a spoken word record, The Strangest Secret, which sold more than a million copies, making it the first spoken-word recording to achieve Gold Record status
The Strangest Secret By Earl Nightingale - YouTube
Earl Nightingale The Magic Word - Psychology audiobook - YouTube
Book Summary: The Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale
Quotes
“Success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal.”“People with goals succeed because they know where they’re going. It’s that simple.”
“We become what we think about.”
“All you have to do is know where you’re going. The answers will come to you of their own accord.”
“The human mind is the last great, unexplored continent on earth.”
“Everything that’s really worthwhile in life came to us free—our minds, our souls, our bodies, our hopes, our dreams, our ambitions, our intelligence, our love of family and children, and friends and country.”
“The architect of the universe didn’t build a stairway leading nowhere.”
“For thirty days, you must take control of your mind. It will think only about what you permit it to think about. All you have to do is know where you’re going. In addition to maintaining a cheerful, positive outlook, give of yourself more than you have ever done before. Do this knowing that your returns in life must be in direct proportion to what you give.”
"Success is not the result of making money; making money is the result of success
—and success is in direct proportion to our service."
"Avoid thinking about what it is you fear. Each time a fearful or negative thought comes to your mind, replace it with a mental picture of your positive and worthwhile goal."
"Your success will always be measured by the quality and quantity of service you render.
You’ve got to be of service before we can expect a return."
“No man can get rich himself unless he enriches others."
AI summary & illustrations

The answer to this secret, the fundamental law determining our success or failure, is astonishingly simple yet profound: `We become what we think about`.
Our lives are, quite literally, the outward manifestation of our dominant, habitual thoughts. This isn't a new idea; it's a thread running through the wisdom of great thinkers and scriptures throughout history.


Those in the successful 5% harness this power through goals. Success isn't merely an endpoint or accumulating wealth; it's defined as the `progressive realization of a worthy ideal`. Anyone who has set a definite goal and is deliberately working towards it – whether becoming a great teacher, a skilled craftsman, a top salesperson, or a loving parent – is a success because they know where they are going. They have planted their goal like a seed in their mind.

- Write your single, most important `goal on a card`.
- Look at it morning, noon, and night, thinking cheerfully about its achievement.
- Crucially, every single time a fearful or negative thought enters your mind, consciously replace it with the mental picture of your positive goal.
- Persist for 30 days without fail (restarting if you lapse), act as though failure is impossible, and go the extra mile in your efforts.

money and prosperity. You don't pursue money directly; money is earned and is the result of success, which is based on service. Like needing to put wood in the stove before getting heat, you must provide useful service or products first.
Your financial return will be in direct proportion to the quality and quantity of your service to others. Focus on serving, building, creating, and enriching others, and according to the immutable law of mutual exchange, prosperity and abundance will naturally flow back to you. Money simply becomes the yardstick measuring that service.
Saturday, March 29, 2025
book: In Sheep's Clothing
Saturday, March 22, 2025
Sunday, March 16, 2025
book: Siddhartha by Herman Hesse
Amazon.com : hermann hesse siddhartha
Siddhartha - Burlington County Library System - OverDrive
Books: Siddhartha (sorted by popularity) - Project Gutenberg
Siddhartha (novel) - Wikipedia Siddhartha: An Indian novel (German: Siddhartha is a 1922 novel by Hermann Hesse that deals with the spiritual journey of self-discovery of a man named Siddhartha during the time of the Gautama Buddha.
Siddhartha - Wikipedia Siddhārtha is the birth name of the founder of Buddhism, Gautama Buddha.
How accurate is the book "Siddhartha"? : r/Buddhism
"The main character of Siddhartha isn't even meant to be the Buddha. It's a novel about a guy with the same name who lived at the same time. Some events seem to be drawn from the Buddha's life, but at one point, Siddhartha (the character) meets the Buddha.
It's a novel about a spiritual journey. Don't look to it for an accurate depiction of Buddhism."
Siddhartha (Hermann Hesse): A 4-Minute Book Summary & Review
SIDDHARTHA | HERMANN HESSE | BOOK REVIEW - YouTube
Siddhartha - Hermann Hesse BOOK REVIEW - YouTube
Gautama Buddha Quotes (Author of The Diamond Sutra and The Sutra of Hui-Neng) @Goodreads
mentioned in this excellent podcast
#460 – Narendra Modi: Prime Minister of India - Power, Democracy, War & Peace | Lex Fridman Podcast
Saturday, March 8, 2025
book: 2-Minute Pep Talks
I Published My 2nd Book Today — It’s Called “2-Minute Pep Talks” | by Niklas Göke | Medium
Pep talks are like vitamins: You can take them every day preemptively, or you can wait until your body signals a lack of them — but sooner or later, you will need your vitamins.Sunday, March 2, 2025
word: Enthusiasm
God Within | Religious Studies Center
“Enthusiasm” has a fascinating etymology and an equally fascinating intellectual history. It comes from the Greek enthousiasmos, which consists of the root words “theos” (god) and “en” (in). Thus “enthusiasm” literally means “God within.” I like that. To be enthusiastic is to be inspired or, more precisely, possessed by God. In ancient Greece, enthusiasm connoted a sort of divine madness.The word “enthusiasm” comes from the Greek word “entheos” which means the God within. And the happiest, most interesting people are those who have found the secret of maintaining their enthusiasm, that God within. - Earl Nightingale (author of The Strangest Secret)
Saturday, March 1, 2025
book: Revenge of the Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell
well written and researched, surprising and scary
Twenty-five years after the publication of his groundbreaking first book, Malcolm Gladwell returns with a brand-new volume that reframes the lessons of The Tipping Point in a startling and revealing light.Sunday, February 23, 2025
Quotes: Magnus Carlsen
Magnus Carlsen Quotes (Author of Grind Like a Grandmaster)
“Without the element of enjoyment, it’s not worth trying to excel at anything.” - @MagnusCarlsen”
if you’re not optimistic, if you’re not looking for your chances, you’re going to miss. You’re going to miss opportunities. And you know, I think there are — there are plenty of players in history who have been immensely talented, but they’re — they’re just too pessimistic.
Joe Rogan Experience #2275 - Magnus Carlsen - YouTube
Saturday, February 22, 2025
Book: The Way to Wealth by Benjamin Franklin & AI
The Way to Wealth or Father Abraham's Sermon is an essay written by Benjamin Franklin in 1758. It is a collection of adages and advice presented in Poor Richard's Almanack during its first 25 years of publication, organized into a speech given by "Father Abraham" to a group of people. Many of the phrases Father Abraham quotes continue to be familiar today. The essay's advice is based on the themes of work ethic and frugality.
Franklin's Way to Wealth; or, "Poor Richard Improved" by Benjamin Franklin | Project Gutenberg
Translated to modern English by AI
by Benjamin Franklin
Dear reader,
I've heard that nothing makes an author happier than seeing their work respectfully quoted by others. So, imagine how pleased I was with the event I'm about to share with you. Recently, I stopped my horse at a spot where a large crowd had gathered for an auction of merchants' goods. Since the auction hadn't started yet, people were talking about how bad the times were. Someone in the group called out to an old, simple, and clean man with white hair, saying, "Tell us, Father Abraham, what do you think about the times? Won't these heavy taxes ruin the country? How will we ever pay them? What advice do you have for us?" Father Abraham stood up and said, "If you want my advice, I'll keep it short, as a word to the wise is enough, like Poor Richard says." The crowd urged him to share his thoughts, and they gathered around as he began to speak.
"Friends," he said, "the taxes are really heavy. If we only had to pay the ones from the government, it would be easier. But we have other 'taxes' that are even worse for some of us. Our laziness 'taxes' us times more, our pride times more, and our foolishness times more. No one can reduce these 'taxes' for us or take them away. But if we listen to good advice, we can improve things. 'God helps those who help themselves,' as Poor Richard says."
It would seem unfair if a government took one-tenth of people's time for its work. But laziness takes even more from us. Being idle can cause sickness, which cuts life short.
Laziness, like rust, destroys things faster than hard work wears them out, but a key that is used stays shiny—just like Poor Richard says. Do you love life? Then don't waste time, because time is what life is made of—Poor Richard says that too. How much extra time do we waste sleeping, forgetting that "a sleeping fox catches no chickens," and "there will be plenty of time to sleep in the grave"—just like Poor Richard wisely reminds us.
If time is the most valuable thing, then wasting it must be, as Poor Richard says, the worst kind of waste. He also reminds us, "Lost time is never found again, and what we think is plenty of time often turns out to be too little." So let's get to work and focus on what matters. With effort, we can get more done without as much hassle.
Being lazy makes everything harder, but hard work makes it easier. If you get up late, you'll have to rush all day and still might not finish everything; and if you're lazy, poverty will catch up to you quickly. Take control of your tasks—don't let them control you. And as Poor Richard says, 'Going to bed early and waking up early makes a person healthy, wealthy, and wise'
Why spend time just wishing and hoping for better times? We can make things better if we take action. "Hard workers don't need to wish, and if you live on hope alone, you'll stay hungry." You can't gain anything without effort, so pitch in and help, because I don't have land of my own—or if I do, the taxes are high. "If you have a skill, you have an asset, and if you have a job or purpose, it's like having an opportunity for both profit and respect," as Poor Richard says. But still, you need to work at that skill and follow through with that job, or neither your skill nor your job will help you pay those taxes.
If we work hard, we won't go hungry. "At a hardworking person's house, hunger may look in, but it won't dare come inside." And no debt collector or officer will bother us, because "Hard work pays off debt, but giving up only makes it worse." So what if you haven't found treasure or been left money by a rich relative? "Work and effort bring good luck, and God rewards those who work hard. Plow the land deeply while others sleep, and you'll have enough corn to use and sell."
Work today because you don't know what could slow you down tomorrow. "One today is worth two tomorrows," as Poor Richard says, and also, "Never put off to tomorrow what you can do today." If you were a servant, wouldn't you be embarrassed if your boss found you being lazy? Well, aren't you your own boss? You should be just as embarrassed to catch yourself being lazy, especially when there's so much to do for yourself, your family, your community, and your country.
Use your tools properly and without hesitation—after all, "A cat wearing gloves can't catch mice," as Poor Richard says. Yes, there's a lot to do, and maybe you feel like you're not strong enough, but if you stay consistent and keep going, you'll see progress. "Dripping water can wear down stones, patience and effort can let a mouse chew through a thick rope, and steady little strikes can chop down big oak trees."
I think I hear some of you ask, "Can't a person take a break?" Let me tell you what Poor Richard says: "Use your time wisely if you want to enjoy free time; and, since you're not guaranteed even a minute, don't waste an hour." Free time should be spent doing something useful. Hard workers can earn this kind of free time, but lazy people never will. This is because "A life of relaxation and a life of laziness are not the same." Many people try to live off their cleverness alone, without working, but they fail because they have nothing to back them up. On the other hand, hard work brings comfort, plenty, and respect. "Avoid chasing pleasures, and they will come to you. Hard workers always have what they need. And now that I have a sheep and a cow, everyone greets me kindly."
II. "But we also need to stay steady, focused, and careful in our work. We should manage our own tasks ourselves and not rely too much on others. As Poor Richard says,"
"I've never seen a tree moved often, or a family moved often, do as well as those that stay put."
"Moving three times is as bad as a fire."
"Take care of your shop, and your shop will take care of you."
"If you want your work done, go yourself. If not, send someone else."
"If you want to succeed through farming, you must either work the plow yourself or guide it."
"The boss looking at the work does more than both his hands."
"Not caring causes more harm than not knowing."
"Not watching workers is like leaving your wallet wide open."
Relying too much on others can cause big problems for many people. As they say, "In this world, people don't succeed because of trust, but because they are careful and don't rely on it." Taking care of things yourself is often best. As the saying goes, "If you want a reliable helper who does things your way, do it yourself." Even small neglect can lead to big trouble. "If a nail is missing, the shoe falls off; if the shoe falls off, the horse is lost; and if the horse is lost, the rider is defeated and killed by the enemy"—all because no one paid attention to a small horse-shoe nail.
III. "Now we've talked about hard work and focusing on your own tasks, my friends, but we also need to talk about saving money. If you want your hard work to really pay off, you must learn to be careful with your spending. A person who doesn't know how to save money might work hard their whole life, 'keep their nose to the grindstone,' and still end up with nothing in the end. 'A rich kitchen leads to a poor will,' and,
"Many fortunes are used up while being made, since women stopped spinning and knitting to have tea, and men stopped chopping and splitting wood for punch."
"If you want to be rich, think about saving money, not just earning it. Spain didn't get rich from the Indies because it spent more than it earned."
"Stop wasting money on useless things, and you won't have as much reason to complain about tough times, high taxes, and expensive families; because,"
"Women and wine, tricks and lies, Make the wealth small, and the want great."
And further, "What you spend on bad habits could raise two children." Maybe you think a little tea, some punch, fancier food, nicer clothes, or some occasional entertainment isn't a big deal. But remember, "A lot of small things add up to something big." Be careful with little expenses – "Even a small leak can sink a big ship," as Poor Richard says. He also says, "Loving fancy things leads to poverty," and "Fools throw feasts, and wise people eat them."
Here you all are, gathered to buy fancy trinkets and decorations. You call them "goods," but if you're not careful, they might turn out to be *bad* for you. You expect them to be cheap, and maybe they are – but if you don't actually need them, they're still too expensive for you. Remember what Poor Richard says: "If you buy what you don't need, you'll soon have to sell what you *do* need." And he also says, "Pause for a moment before buying something just because it seems like a bargain." Cheap things may only *seem* cheap; they might hurt your finances more than help. As Poor Richard warns, "Many people have ruined themselves chasing 'good deals.'"
And again, "It's foolish to spend money on something you'll regret later." But people do this all the time at auctions, simply because they ignore good advice. Many people have worn fine clothes, only to go hungry and half-starve their families. As Poor Richard says, "Silks, satins, scarlet, and velvet will put out your kitchen fire." These things aren't necessities – they're barely even useful – and yet so many people want them just because they look nice.
But fancy living and overspending can make even wealthy people poor. Then they end up borrowing money from people they once looked down on – people who stayed stable because they worked hard and saved wisely. In such cases, it's clear that "A hardworking farmer standing on his own two feet is better than a rich man begging on his knees," as Poor Richard says.
Sometimes people inherit a bit of money but don't know how to manage it. They think "The good times will last forever," and believe spending a little here and there doesn't matter. But, as Poor Richard warns, "If you keep taking from the barrel without refilling it, you'll soon hit the bottom." And then, "When the well runs dry, you'll finally understand how valuable water is."
This is something they could've known earlier if they had listened to advice. "If you want to know the value of money, try borrowing some," says Poor Richard, "because borrowing brings sorrow." And even the lender regrets it when it's time to collect the money back.
Poor Richard also gives more advice, saying...
"Loving fancy clothes is a real problem. Before thinking about style, think about your money."
"Pride is as loud as being poor and even more rude," says Poor Richard. When you buy one fancy thing, you'll feel like you have to buy ten more to match it. But Poor Richard says, "It's easier to stop the first want than to satisfy all the ones that come after." It's just as foolish for poor people to try to act rich as it is for a frog to puff itself up to look as big as an ox.
Big ships can take more risks, but small boats should stay close to the shore.
It's a mistake that gets punished quickly. As Poor Richard says, "Pride that feeds on vanity ends up being fed contempt;--Pride started the day with wealth, had poverty for lunch, and ended with shame." In the end, what's the point of this pride in looks that costs so much and causes so much trouble? It doesn't help you stay healthy, it doesn't take away pain, it doesn't make you a better person. Instead, it makes others jealous and brings trouble faster.
Why would you go into debt for things you don't really need? This sale offers six months of credit, and maybe that's why some of you are here—you don't have cash right now but hope to look good without paying immediately. But stop and think about what you're doing when you borrow money; you're giving someone else control over your freedom. If you can't pay on time, you'll feel ashamed to face the person you owe. You'll feel nervous talking to them, make weak excuses, and slowly lose your honesty. As Poor Richard says, "The second bad habit is lying, the first is borrowing money." He also says, "Lying rides on the back of debt." A free person shouldn't feel afraid or embarrassed to talk to anyone. But being in debt can crush your confidence and integrity. "An empty bag can't stand up straight."
Now imagine a king or government told you that you weren't allowed to dress nicely unless you wanted to risk imprisonment or slavery. Wouldn't you say you're free to dress however you want and that such rules are unfair and oppressive? Yet, when you borrow money to buy fancy clothes, you're putting yourself under the same kind of control. If you can't pay your creditor, they have the power to lock you up or even sell you as a servant.
When you first buy something on credit, you might not think much about paying it back, but creditors don't forget. Poor Richard warns, "Creditors have better memories than debtors; creditors are very strict about deadlines." The payment day always comes faster than you expect, and you might not be ready when it does. Even if you keep your debt in mind, the time you have to repay it will seem to shrink quickly. "Time flies," as they say. Poor Richard also mentions, "People who owe money by Easter will have a very short Lent."
Right now, you might think you're doing well financially and that a little extra spending won't hurt—but...
"Save money and prepare while you can, because no morning sun shines all day."
Earning money may not last long or be guaranteed, but spending is always constant and certain while you're alive. As Poor Richard says, "It's easier to build two chimneys than to keep one supplied with fuel." So, "It's better to go to bed without dinner than to wake up owing money."
Take what you can and keep it tight, [it's] the magic stone that turns lead to gold, alright!
When you have the Philosopher's Stone, you won't complain about hard times or how hard it is to pay taxes anymore.
This teaching, my friends, is smart and wise. But don't rely too much on your own hard work, saving, and careful planning, even though those are great things. They can all fail without Heaven's blessing. So, ask for that blessing humbly, and don't look down on or judge those who seem to need it right now. Instead, comfort and help them. Remember, Job went through hard times but was successful later.
To finish, "Experience is a tough teacher, but fools learn no other way," as Poor Richard says—and even then, they rarely learn! It's true that "We can give advice, but we can't make people act on it." Just remember, "Those who refuse advice can't be helped," and also, "If you won't listen to Reason, she'll eventually smack you," as Poor Richard says.
So, the old man finished his speech. The people listened, agreed with his ideas, and then immediately did the opposite—just like they would after hearing a regular sermon. The auction started, and they began spending money like crazy.
I could tell the old man had carefully read my Almanacks and thought deeply about everything I had written on these subjects over the past years. He mentioned me so many times that it probably would have annoyed anyone else, but it made me feel proud—even though I knew not even 10% of the wisdom he credited to me was actually mine. Most of it came from bits and pieces of knowledge I had collected from all over the world and throughout history.
Still, I decided to take his praise as a lesson for myself. I had planned to buy some cloth for a new coat, but instead, I left the auction determined to keep wearing my old coat a bit longer.
Reader, if you do the same, you'll gain as much as I did.
Yours always, ready to help, RICHARD SAUNDERS
Saturday, February 15, 2025
book: Your Next Five Moves by Patrick Bet-David
CLARITY on what you want and who you want to be.
STRATEGY to help you reason in the war room and the board room.
GROWTH TACTICS for good times and bad.
SKILLS for building the right team based on strong values.
INSIGHT on power plays and the art of applying leverage.
Saturday, February 8, 2025
book: How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by by Dale Carnegie
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